Parent’s Information Page

Is it time to speak with the counselor?
Parents should feel free to contact the counselor when they notice certain signs or changes in their child:

• You see a dramatic change in your child’s behavior.
• There’s been a change in your family. A new marriage, a severe illness, a divorce or new babies can all effect schoolwork.
• Your child begins acting out and fails to respond to your usual methods of discipline. The behavior that you see at home may also be occurring at school.

Children Slacking Off At School

Here are some things to try:

• Avoid nagging or taking over. Students do best when they feel they're in control.
• Believe in your child! Talk about his special talents and what he can do in the future.
• Ask about school every day…and listen to your child's answers.
• Help your child set learning goals. Make sure they're clear and achievable in the short-term.
• Praise effort. Notice when and how long your child works on an assignment.
• Boost self-confidence. Point out progress.
• Offer positive incentives. Ask your child what would motivate him to work harder.
• Ask your child to share what he knows. What book is he reading? Can he teach you how to use a computer?
• Show relevancy. Discuss how what your child is learning in school can be used in the "real-world."

Timely Tips

Take Advantage of Dinner- Put a subject "on the table." Get everyone to share his or her thoughts about an issue important to him or her.

Set Up a Study Spot-

• Well lit.
• Quiet.
• Comfortable.
• Neat

Stick With a Study Routine

• How long should my child spend on homework?
  That depends on his age and skills as well as the subject matter. His teacher can give you a good estimate. Consider setting a required working time so your child doesn't rush through assignments. Here are some guidelines on which many experts agree:
• Grades 1-3 10 to 30 minutes per day
• Grades 4-6 30 to 60 minutes per day

• When should my child study?
  Any time is okay, as long as it's not late at night. The ideal time is when your child is most alert. This might be after school, after dinner or early in the morning. If possible, he should study at the same time every day.
• What should my child study first?
  Probably her hardest subjects, because they demand the most energy and motivation. But if your child is intimidated by homework, starting with the easy parts may help. Remember that assignments due the next day should get priority.

Don't Make These Study Mistakes

• Don't compare children.
• Don't use studying as a punishment.
• Don't expect perfection.
• Don't talk negatively about homework.